This is what adults do Rector Knoxville, TN [Religion News Service] It was a week for grown-ups.When Republican partisans lambasted New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie for collaborating with a Democratic president to rescue a state devastated by Hurricane Sandy, he tweeted, “We are adults. This is what adults do.”When residents, officials and even runners themselves called on New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg to cancel Sunday’s New York City Marathon as an inappropriate “prance” through a storm-damaged city, the mayor reversed an earlier decision and canceled. This is what adults do.Many marathoners, in turn, donned their orange race shirts and carried food and supplies to Staten Island, then stayed to help desperate homeowners reclaim flooded houses. This is what adults do.Officials of electric utilities, transportation systems and schools stood before cameras and told it straight. Some will get restored first, and here’s why. Some schools won’t be able to reopen, and here’s why. No blaming. Just facts. This is what adults do.In its remarkable nonstop coverage of the storm and its aftermath, New York’s WCBS-2 sent reporters out to the areas where people live. There they listened to residents and enabled an entire region to hear the tragic stories of homes lost, lives lost, jobs lost. This is what adults do.We experienced the heroism of first responders. We saw adults in action: medical personal rescuing patients at two hospitals that needed to be evacuated, parents comforting frightened children, firefighters moving toward danger. This is what adults do.When gasoline stations began to run out of fuel, drivers got in line, waited their turn, and, except for the occasional fistfight, seemed to grasp the need to be fair and calm. This is what adults do.Many residents who had electricity ran extension cords out to sidewalks and invited neighbors to charge their cell phones. Civic-minded techies set up makeshift offices to help neighbors. This is what adults do.Religious institutions jumped in with food, clothing, water and comfort. Volunteers from St. Mark’s Church-in-the-Bowery, for example, climbed to the top floors of Lower East Side tenements and found elderly residents trapped by infirmity and desperate for help. This is what adults do.Hurricane week wasn’t a total victory for adulthood. In wealthy neighborhoods untouched by Sandy, residents who pay dearly to get their needs met insisted that nannies, doormen and custodians leave their own storm-damaged homes to honor employment contracts. High-end suburbanites in Long Island demanded preference because, they argued, they pay such high property taxes. Some disappointed marathoners staged an impromptu in-your-face run that took them merrily past bedraggled residents lining up for gasoline.Sometimes, they showed, adulthood doesn’t always mean acting like an adult.Tempers are fraying as recovery drags on, even here in a city that takes pride in its resilience. Even though people understand why the economic hub of Manhattan gets restored first, it’s still galling for residents of Queens to see Midtown glistening while they are burning furniture for heat.After the most dreadful political season in memory, I took heart as leaders stepped up to lead and as adults stepped up to do what adults do. Those who have actual responsibilities carried them out, while those who lust for power were ignored. Those whose families were actually in danger put family first, while “family values” partisans were ignored.This is what adults do.– Tom Ehrich is a writer, church consultant and Episcopal priest based in New York. He is the author of “Just Wondering, Jesus” and founder of the Church Wellness Project. His website is www.morningwalkmedia.com. Follow Tom on Twitter @tomehrich. Bishop Diocesan Springfield, IL Marylin Day says: Sid Gardner says: Associate Rector for Family Ministries Anchorage, AK Rector/Priest in Charge (PT) Lisbon, ME November 7, 2012 at 7:42 pm Just because I don’t agree with your politics, I can’t tell you thanks and I appreciate your help? Gosh, even my mother said to thank my great-aunt when she gave me presents that were “the wrong size” or for “children of a much younger age” because it is the thought and intent that counts. Being nice counts! November 7, 2012 at 7:29 pm I believe the GOP partisans lambasted Gov. Christie not for collaborating with President Obama to provide relief, but for overly praising him at that particular time, in a very closely contested campaign for the Presidency of the United States. November 7, 2012 at 11:29 pm Great thought – I wish this could appear on the desk of every elected official at all levels to help them remember they are elected not to advance their Party’s agenda but to govern the Nation, State, or municipality. An Evening with Presiding Bishop Curry and Iconographer Kelly Latimore Episcopal Migration Ministries via Zoom June 23 @ 6 p.m. ET Submit a Job Listing Rector Collierville, TN In-person Retreat: Thanksgiving Trinity Retreat Center (West Cornwall, CT) Nov. 24-28 November 8, 2012 at 9:43 am I too have been heartened by communities coming together after Sandy.However, I’m pretty sure that the tweet you mention, if you’re referring to the one that said, “Today I’m touring NJ with President Obama. Yes, he’s a Democrat, and I’m a Republican. We’re also adults, and this is how adults behave” was actually from the fake Twitter feed for Chris Christie (@GovChristieNJ). If you had at the other tweets from this feed you would have seen, “During our recovery, remember this: Give a man a fish, he’ll eat for a day. Teach a man to fish, well, you know how I feel about teachers.” His verified twitter feed is @GovChristie, and I was unable to find the tweet you mentioned there.There are a lot of fake Twitter feeds generated for laughs and not actually trying to fool anybody (such as the Spanglish Bloomberg feed @ElBloombito). There have also been a lot of photoshopped pictures of Sandy that WERE trying to fool people just for 15 minutes of viral fame. This requires that we investigate these things further before we give them credence. Featured Events Submit an Event Listing Rector Hopkinsville, KY Rector Smithfield, NC Comments (5) Director of Administration & Finance Atlanta, GA Press Release Service Inaugural Diocesan Feast Day Celebrating Juneteenth San Francisco, CA (and livestream) June 19 @ 2 p.m. PT Doug Desper says: Rector Bath, NC November 9, 2012 at 4:56 pm People need to hold NYC’s elected leaders accountable for the response to the crisis. The politicians want to control aspects of peoples’ lives down to how large a soda can be sold and consumed, and nary a leaf of tobacco in public, but they have yet to develop a sufficient infrastrure for feeding, sheltering, and restoring services. Only – and I mean unwillingly – only after a lot of outcry did it occur to Mayor Bloomberg that it was obscene to hold a marathon complete with laden sandwich/meal tables, generators that could power dozens of dwellings, and water poured over sweating athlete heads in the plain sight of people trapped in darkened homes without food, water, electricity or heat. Remember: elections have consequences. You get what you vote for. A Nanny State government that controls peoples lives should not be preferred to a government that safeguards lives. 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